Happy New Year 2023!

Here we are, January 2023 arrived! It’s like a page has been turned, like the world is ready for a new and fresh start. A new year is like a new chapter in your life story. And you get the chance to write your own incredible journey. What do you want it to be? To narrow down the possibilities, let’s choose 1 or 2 of these categories: Health, Relationships, Career, Mindset, Finances, Hobbies. Once you’ve defined your area(s) of focus, try to write down all your dreams first. What do you wish to yourself? What would make 2023 a true happy new year? From that, start breaking it down into smaller chunks and more precise goals. Then, reflect… How would your life look like if you achieve them? How would you feel?

Happy Habits, Happy Life

As we said, January is the perfect time to implement new, healthy & motivating habits such as… taking care of yourself! Like in a plane, put on your own oxygen mask first. It’s the only way to achieve what is really important to you. How to do so? Well-being is defined as a state of being comfortable, healthy and happy of mind, body and soul. Therefore, taking care of yourself means putting in place habits that nourish your BODY: good food, water, exercice,…; your MIND: exciting tasks, mental fitness, positive thinking,…; and your SOUL: find your purpose, reflect, give back,…
Do you want to know how to integrate more well-being in your lifestyle? Don’t wait, book a free consultation with me!

Surprising King’s Cake

On January 6th, many countries celebrated the Epiphany. Even though many of us have forgotten the religious reasons for commemoration, we continue the important culinary tradition with a ‘3 king’s cake’. We call it galette des rois in French. It’s a double pastry cake with a yummy almond filling. What’s most important is the fève, a little lucky charm that is placed inside it. If you get it, you are the king or queen of the day and even get a paper crown! An old fable tells that parents, generation after generation, share the gift of sensing where the fève is and that it will always fall on their children. And that it would multiply according to the number of children! Have you noticed it too?

The Restless

We start the year with the Restless Saboteurs. Perfect with all this new things you want to try out this year! The Restless is constantly searching greater excitement in the next activity. It can also be a way to escape from dealing with problems and fears… A great friend to have around with a contagious enthusiasm and lots of energy! But the cost is a growing hidden anxiety, feeling of uncompletedness and chaos.

Challenge of the month: When you’re feeling restless, stop and breathe, focus on physical sensations (visual, audio, taste, smell, touch). Realize that it’s a strategy to distract you from a pain. 

Avoid multitasking and finish up what you’ve started. 

It’s, in the end, more efficient and will bring you a clearer mind.

How to be SMART?

Now that you know what you want for the new year, let’s have a look how you can help yourself actually achieve your goals.
“A goal without a deadline is just a dream”…
Time to make your dreams clear and reachable. The most famous method is to create “SMART goals”.
S for specific: bring details to the definition;

M for measurable: define progress indicators;

Achievable: make it exciting but attainable;

Relevant: so that is motivating and aligned with your why;

Time-bound: give a concrete deadline of achievement. For example, “lose weight this year” becomes “train at the gym twice a week and stop eating snacks so I can lose 3 kg before my beach holidays on August 1st”.

Are your goals SMART?

How to Actually Enjoy the Holidays?

In December, we get stressed with the preparation for the holidays, Christmas gifts and end of year duties. How to transform it to Happiness?
1. Savor the present: Look out for little things to enjoy, focus on what you cherish most, and pay attention to all your senses
2. Listen to yourself and your needs: Take some time alone to rest, feel the stress and letting it all go with a warm invisible shower. Try out to say No or propose a counter-offer. 
3. Set aside that negative voice and search for perfection. You are doing plenty enough, trust yourself. ♥
What is more important in the end that will matter most for you 5 years from now?

Saint Nicholas, Saint Nicolas, Sinterklaas

On the 6th of December, some countries like Belgium, Luxembourg, western Germany, northern France and Hungary are celebrating Saint Nicholas. In the Netherlands, they celebrate Sinterklass on the St. Nicholas’ Eve. Saint Nicholas was the patron saint of children and known for his generosity and miracles. Now that I live in Switzerland, I realize that I miss that funny tradition of Sinterklass and the Zwarte Pete coming to town, throwing pepernoten in the office, and receiving a chocolate letter. In Dutch families, children would receive their gifts at Sinterklass rather than at Christmas. 

What do you celebrate in your country?

Introspection, Retrospective & Contemplation

December is the perfect month to check within, see what we’ve accomplished and design what we wish for the new year. To do so, first, find a quiet place and allow yourself to be undisturbed. Then, take deep breaths, count your toes and ask yourself: Looking back at 2022, what do I want to celebrate myself for? And how? What would I do differently if anything? Of what do I want more in 2023? What qualities do I want to develop in 2023? What do I want to leave behind? What’s my secret wish for 2023? Finally, choose one word to take with you and represent your new year.
You’re ready!  
If not, don’t worry, book a call with me and I’ll support you.

The Pleaser

How fitting to present the PLEASER for this month! 
All Pleasers in the room struggling to find the perfect gift, please stand up! This Saboteur tries to gain acceptance and affection, by overly helping and pleasing others. Although it’s beautiful to be there for others, when it’s taken too far, you then forget your own needs, get disappointed, and become resentful.

Challenge of the month: Practice receiving! Consider it a gift you give to others to accept the gift they offer you. Read that again 🙂
In time and with practice, you’ll learn to listen more for what you need, and then to ask for it. By boosting your Mental Fitness, you’ll develop your Empathize Power towards yourself for unconditional self-love. 

Happy Holidays!

Looking back on this busy year 2022, I am very grateful to have created memories with you. Thank you for being part of my life, helping me become the person I am today and supporting my mission to help people live happier lives. I wouldn’t have done it without you.
♥
I wish you all the very best for the new year and the many more to come. May you stay healthy, of mind and body, confident and happy. May you cherish each little precious moment in life. I’m looking forward to going on new adventures together in 2023!
♥
You are unique, you are beautiful, you are enough.
Take good care, Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year!

The Power Of Awe

In November, we often feel down as winter is coming, days are greyer and we stress about the end year celebrations and family reunions. To balance it out, let’s try to focus on the positive. Scientists have studied the power of awe, the “wow” effect.  Looking for awesomeness in your daily life has direct positive effects on your mood, on your Happiness. This can also have good health benefits, such as lower inflammations. By training the positive side of your brain, you experience more positive emotions, which improves your performance, creativity, empathy. You even feel more connected to others and to life in general. How will you bring more awe in your life today?

Mental Fitness Workshop

In October and November, I have facilitated my flagship “Mental Fitness for Happiness” workshop at the Department of Bio-Medicine of the University of Basel. It was such an honor to share my insights on Positive Intelligence, and let them discover their Saboteurs and bring on the power of the Sage. Thank you to all the participants and for your great feedback! Simona says it’s “informative and practically helpful to change our way of approaching negative thoughts” and Mirela adds it’s “a very reflective group exercise about struggles that we all have”. Do you and your team feel in constant stress and in a negative vortex? Message me if you want your team to experience that shift too! 
Photo by Natacha Jenny natjenny79.myportfolio.com

Dios Los Muertos

This special day, called “The Day of the Dead”, is celebrated on November 1st and 2nd, widely in Mexico, in honor of the dead. It is a beautiful and light-hearted opportunity to remember, pay respects and celebrate all the loved ones who passed away. Families build impressive colorful altars with flowers, decorated sculls, foods, memorabilia and photos. Houses, courtyards and trees are decorated with flowers, ribbons and picturesque skeletons. Many people wear incredible makeup and extravagant costumes. This unique tradition is even listed as Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity by UNESCO. How do you honor your lost loved ones?

The Hyper-Vigilent

This month, we take a look at the HYPER-VIGILENT!
When you have a prominent Hyper-Vigilent Saboteur, you think you can protect yourself and your loved ones. But the Saboteur creates the opposite it promises, so you are always on the look out and running anxious all the time. In the end, you are so exhausted that you lose your clear-headed focus and get less vigilent.

Challenge of the month: Expose the lie of the Saboteur and realize that safety and security can only found within. Through PQ reps you learn to internally feel more safe and secure. How can you apply the Sage Perspective and find how to convert “bad” outcomes into gifts?

My THANKSgiving Gift

In November, Thanksgiving is celebrated, mostly in the USA, as a traditional moment to express gratitude and give meaningful thanks. Beyond the commercial aspects of Black Friday, Cyber Monday and such, there is a sense of recognition of the other and will to give back. In this mindset, I am excited to participate in a BIG way!

♥ Until November 28th, I offer my 6-month program at 400chf OFF! ♥ for new coachees
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